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The 4 Week Freak Out
Originally posted on BFL Women
If I had a dollar for every woman who had hysterics at week 4, I would be
a bazillionaire. :-) I can't even tell you how totally normal it is.
EVERYBODY goes through this. There is tremendous doubt at week 4. People
are working so hard, and their expectations are so high. If there isn't some kind of dramatic payoff they completely
freak out. It happens again around week 9 or 10 when you start losing steam and wondering why you're even doing this. So,
you have that to look forward to. :-)
I have my challenge one stats in front of me again. At 4 weeks I had lost
no weight. Zip, zero, nada, none. I wrote down my weight every week in that challenge and it went 137, 137, 138, 136,
137, 136, 137, 135, 136, 135, 134, 134. Six weeks in I still weighed the same as when I started. At week 3 I weighed
MORE than when I started. I was fully expecting to end up at around 125 pounds. So, I was more than a little befuddled
at the scale thing.
***(In that challenge I lost 3/4 inch off each arm, 2 inches off each thigh, 1 3/4 inch off
my hips, 2 inches off my waist, and 2 inches off my abdomen. My body fat dropped from 20.3% to 15.1% even though I lost
no real scale weight)***
On the 1,200 calorie a day thing. You have to ask yourself, did that ever work as a long
term solution? Or did you look really cute for about 10 seconds and then gain everything back? If so, what was the point
of it? Do you really want to do that again? What makes you think low calorie dieting would work this time when it's
failed you so many times before?
If you're getting panicky, you could certainly cut your calories by several hundred
a day, make a bunch of unrealistic changes to your meals, give up free day, exercise even more. I don't recommend it though,
because it's not something you can maintain. It's setting yourself up for another failure. This isn't about being really
strict for a few weeks, it's about changing your whole approach to food and exercise for the rest of your life. That takes
time, and patience, and faith. You can't have it all straightened out in 4 short weeks. There's a learning curve.
I
have a huge advantage because I've been at this for years. I've already tried absolutely everything regarding workouts,
ratios, meal timing, supplements. I know exactly what works for ME. I do it and it immediately works. No guessing. You're
going to have to experiment a little. It may take more than one challenge to perfect your This Is How I Totally Kick
Ass System.
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